Freeing oneself of sexual obsessions to access soul-deep intimacy you won’t want to return from
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

Freeing oneself of sexual obsessions to access soul-deep intimacy you won’t want to return from

Trying to get rid of a sexual obsession (think kink or fetishes) can often feel impossible. They can cause unnecessary suffering that yet feels absolutely necessary while pulling us down into a dark hole, keeping us away from the path of real life fulfillment, as our sexual (aka creative) energy is oriented towards satisfaction rather than growth and development of life-purpose. 

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50 key questions to evaluate a good love partner
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

50 key questions to evaluate a good love partner

Even though physical chemistry is important when meeting someone, and physical attraction is an effective compass for recognizing compatibility, it is so easy to get it wrong when choosing a partner, isn't it?

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Self-Observation and the 3 Levels of Identification
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

Self-Observation and the 3 Levels of Identification

When we practice self-observation, we notice that our identifications manifest in different, often contradictory ways. A part of us is completely serene, while another part, in a more invisible way, is irritated or discouraged.

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What do you do with it?
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

What do you do with it?

When the power of passion rises
What do you do with it?
Do you channel it into thinking
Self-pleasuring in the head
Slavery of the mind

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