Finding a Healthy Closure

Feb 21

We all work hard to be detached and independent.
To love ourselves and not depend on anyone.
But often, we don’t realize that our “detachment” is actually dissociation — a form of repression.

We build a wall around ourselves, around our heart and our innocence, to protect ourselves from the toxic experiences that happened to us — experiences we never fully understood.

Because it’s true: crying too much, fighting too much, makes you age faster.
With every loss, I feel myself grow older — I can sense it.

Putting the past aside helps us function day to day.
And it already takes a lot of work to learn how to do that.

The problem is that deep inside, it leaves an invisible mark.
Something remains trapped within.
At first, we don’t feel it. We feel lighter.
But over time, it becomes heavier.

The walls we created have imprisoned us a little too.
We feel disconnected.
We can’t be touched by the world around us in the same way anymore.
We thirst for intimacy, but intimacy becomes harder to reach.

If you recognize yourself in this portrait, it’s normal.
It’s (almost) all of our story.

Rediscover the sensitivity of your youth
without losing the strength of your wisdom.

Something isn’t finished —
you feel it deep inside.
There is still buried pain.
Unanswered questions.

If life allows you the space right now,
and you feel the call to free yourself
without having to build a wall or cut yourself off from the Love you once felt for this person…

I have something for you.

It’s a process of a few weeks to help you find meaning in what seems meaningless.
To finally bring this story to a truly healthy completion.
Revisit forgotten wounds to reclaim the parts of yourself you lost along the way — and a portion of your latent potential.

It’s entirely free.