A well-fucked woman will open the world for you — how to reach any woman there

Many women have closed themselves to men, and not because they are cold. Some have accumulated so much of pain and lack of real sex, that they can’t trust men anymore. This is written for the man who wants to reach the depth of any good woman and access her buried potential. 

The women no one is reaching

She is bitter, stubborn, overthinking, anxious. After so much pain and lack of real sex, it’s their way to go mad. Deny access to real sex to a man for long enough, and he will become toxc in his own way too. 

Men keep looking for easier goals: more submissive women, younger women who are easier to control and less likely to challenge them. So who is there for the women in full bloom, the ones ready to be with men their age and just needing some help to be cracked open again?

All women want that. But they have learned to stop trusting men, because there was too much hurt.

The pain runs both ways

To be honest, women misunderstand men a lot. There is a huge portion of that pain which comes from misperceptions. We all have work to do to understand one another, across genders. And to be honest, the violence men do to women is also hugely due to their own overwhelming pain, which comes from their own misperceptions.

But don't give up on good women. They need you to believe in them and show them the way to open back up the way they are craving for. And the way that would light up your world too.

Why she cannot be satisfied alone

A woman who is not truly satisfied in sex grows bitter. She tries her best to be strong and independent, because when she asks, she doesn't feel understood or met. She doesn't want to be a burden. But there is no amount of masturbation or sex toys that can truly satisfy her. Because to be truly satisfied sexually, she must be met and satisfied emotionally. She can have sex all the time, she can have plenty of orgasms, but if she is not met in that place where her heart is met, in the place where she totally melts and surrenders, she will never be truly satisfied.

What a satisfied woman becomes

A well-fucked woman wants to be the best for you. She is yours to the bone, soul and core, and she knows in her guts that your happiness is related to hers. We are all interconnected. She is not erasing herself to please you. She is made stronger by meeting you in her depths, and it makes her surrender all the useless worries she had been carrying.

Become, do not try

None of this is about taking a woman against her will, or pushing her until she gives in. It is about becoming a man she chooses to open to.

So if you want to meet such a woman, you cannot force your way into convincing her that you're good enough. Most forms of seduction nowadays are subtle forms of manipulation. We can all sense it, and it's a huge turnoff for someone who's been through a lot of pain and been made bitter in life. It's also a huge turnoff for someone who is looking for depth. Raw honesty is better.

To stand out of the crowd, BE instead of doing. BECOME instead of trying.

What does that mean?

Well, when you think of her, even if she's not there, put yourself together. Say no to that one more glass. Put your back straight. Pay attention to this person you dislike and give some genuine, selfless kindness. Just work at becoming a better version of yourself here. Now. This is the most meaningful thing you can do to get her to see your value and trust you.

Trying help, but pay attention to her response

Of course, trying to get her attention and making special gestures, connecting intellectually or emotionally with her, it's all good too. She feels valued by you. Trying hard to connect with someone is sexy, unless it pushes against her will after she has stated it clearly. But it hurts more if you suddenly change your mind without a proper transition.

Meet her heart before you try to pleasure her

Now, when she's truly interested and opening up, when she's starting to trust you… She wants to be fucked. But she knows that the deeper it gets, the closer to her soul you will reach and the more binding it will be. She knows that the more chance you will break her even more. The more chance you will harden her further, leaving her more bitter and more broken-hearted than she already was. Blocking her away from her potential once again. 

So the best way to reach her body is to meet her emotionally. A woman's body feels usually more intimate to her than her emotions. For men, it's the opposite. Because sex makes a woman extremely vulnerable. Just the act itself, but also everything that comes with it. Her womb is directly connected to her emotions. The deeper the sex, the more she dissolves into you, becomes devoted, and the more it means everything to her. It is not an easy thing to break that tie. If she gets pregnant, she will be the most vulnerable without a trustworthy man by her side.

So the best preliminaries in the world are emotional, not sexual. You will never reach her depths by playing with her clit. You need her to feel you, to see your flaws, your struggles, to understand where you come from. To see your wishes and your concerns, what drives you, what gives you purpose. She needs to understand you to be moved by you.

She needs to see the truth in your eyes. The kind of things that we cannot lie about. If you do that well, you will never need lubricant.

The deep place where she melts

When you fuck her, meet her in that deep place where she melts (she will melt in that place if you have met her emotionally before sex and if she trusts you). Stay in that place. Move there. Be with her. Breathe her. In that bliss of lasting pleasure plateau, she will give you the best of herself energetically. She will pour her nectar into you. She will become totally yours.

When she is yours

Now what do you do with her when she is yours? When she has melted all her hard, protective core and let you all the way in? Do you try to seduce her again, creating more tension? Do you take her for granted, leaving her unsatisfied again? Do you find her boring and chase another one?

When she is truly yours, she is the most vulnerable. If you hurt her there, you will thicken her armor, and it will be even harder to reach her next time.

If you can see the treasure that is in your hand at that moment, you will fuck her over and over, and let that alchemy open a completely new world to you. She will have made you into a real man. 

Once, or forever

If you feel the value of that treasure in your whole being, there is no way you will let her rot waiting for you again. So you need to ask yourself, do you want to conquer her just once, or forever? Do you want to find her depth once, feel her whole being unlocking, this fountain of life… this elixir of long life… And then not look for deeper corners of her being? Feeling like you've found enough depth already? The real chaser wants to find the deepest treasure. There is no such thing as knowing your partner. She is everything and holds infinite potential.

You have to have a vision. To lead her there. To inspire her there.

When she resists

If she resists, it's because there is something in her that you haven't seen. Don't push harder. Try to see what you don't see. It's often hidden underneath your perceptions of her "delusions," "dramas," or "woo-woo." There are things she sees that you don't see. But she expresses them in a way that is hard for you to grasp rationally, because it is too charged emotionally. Undress the excess emotion, and listen to the message inside. That's the key you need for deeper union, and another layer of depth in that soul-moving sex you've been having with her.

This is not a method. It works if you become the man who can find the buried treasure, and be strong enough to hold it and carry it somewhere once you found it.

When you achieve this with a woman, you will never want any other woman to replace her. She will become worth more than anything you could chase without her. She will add irreplaceable value and depth to your life, success and purpose.