We build a wall around ourselves, around our heart and our innocence, to protect ourselves from the toxic experiences that happened to us — experiences we never fully understood.

Trying to get rid of a sexual obsession (think kink or fetishes) can often feel impossible. They can cause unnecessary suffering that yet feels absolutely necessary while pulling us down into a dark hole, keeping us away from the path of real life fulfillment, as our sexual (aka creative) energy is oriented towards satisfaction rather than growth and development of life-purpose.