Is There a Right Way to Be Friends With Your Ex?
Can we be friends with our ex? Only when the relationship has been truly resolved. On the difference between unfinished longing and the deep, fertile friendship that remains when the sexual pull has dissolved on its own.
The Person You Are Waiting For Is Coming. But Will You Be Ready?
We all know deep within that things would be different if we would be with someone who was truly “matching” us. But when the right person comes, even if we felt it very deeply, something is off. It’s too complicated. It’s not working. We think we misevaluated. But we knew. We just didn’t know how much it would require of us, and how unprepared we were for this love.
Working on Yourself in Love : How Lasting Love is Earned
Love always comes when we least expect it. Then it leaves us shaken and often broken. Because how can you live your life so well after you’ve touched paradise, and lost it? It gives the greatest meaning, then takes it all away. We could give anything to make love last, and yet, it seems to slip away over and over. Because the only path to making this heaven last, is by earning it honestly.
Finding a Healthy Closure
We build a wall around ourselves, around our heart and our innocence, to protect ourselves from the toxic experiences that happened to us — experiences we never fully understood.