Is There a Right Way to Be Friends With Your Ex?
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

Is There a Right Way to Be Friends With Your Ex?

Can we be friends with our ex? Only when the relationship has been truly resolved. On the difference between unfinished longing and the deep, fertile friendship that remains when the sexual pull has dissolved on its own.

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Working on Yourself in Love : How Lasting Love is Earned
Lydie Vachon Lydie Vachon

Working on Yourself in Love : How Lasting Love is Earned

Love always comes when we least expect it. Then it leaves us shaken and often broken. Because how can you live your life so well after you’ve touched paradise, and lost it? It gives the greatest meaning, then takes it all away. We could give anything to make love last, and yet, it seems to slip away over and over. Because the only path to making this heaven last, is by earning it honestly. 

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